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Bonnie and Patrick
A Miracle of Soulmate Lovepage 1
My name is Patrick Spithill. I am sharing my true story with you in the hope that it will help you achieve success in your efforts to find your soulmate. Bonnie and I met in October of 1992. It was love at first sight for both of us. We were each part of a group that met periodically for lunch. Bonnie told me later that she knew, from the moment I walked in the door, that we were meant to be together. When I was introduced to her, I hugged her in greeting, and she said it was as if I was hanging onto her for dear life.
As the intensity of our friendship developed, Bonnie and I recognized that we were destined to be together, and she moved in with me. She was eager to meet my mother, and we arranged a meeting a few months after she had settled in. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned. Our love was obvious to my mother, but she could accept neither Bonnie nor the happiness we had found as a couple. My mother, a divorcee and a Counseling Psychologist, knew what buttons to push to get me to do what she wanted. I, in turn, went along with her wishes hoping that if I did what she wanted, she would love me. Sadly, this controlling woman's determined efforts to break us up succeeded.
I then found my self maneuvered into a marriage with a woman my mother preferred, a marriage that would prove disastrous. Two children were born, and it seemed as if any hope of a reunion with Bonnie was impossible. Despite all the problems my wife and I were experiencing, I tried to make the marriage work. Nevertheless, our numerous counseling sessions failed, and my wife even stopped making deposits into our joint bank account. I was so distraught and confused. I didn’t know what else to do to save our marriage.
Ten years later, I was still trying to hang on to this marriage. During that time, Bonnie and I never lost contact, speaking on the telephone from time to time. In retrospect, I can truthfully say that a day did not go by when I didn’t think of her and love her; I constantly had to struggle to accept what was instead of dreaming of what could have been.
Our love survived an eleven-year separation. We met again, for the first time in over a decade, on March 1, 2005. As I exited the secure area of the airport, I saw her and she saw me. We both broke into tears and wept, clinging to each other for the next seven hours. At the end of that time, Bonnie said something that kept me going in the months ahead. She said, “We deserve to be happy. We deserve to be together.” These words were blurted out spontaneously. And they were and are the truth.
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